🎭 The Dance of Masks
Discover the roles you play and how to reconnect with your authentic self
The Personality Theater
From childhood, we learn to wear social masks – adapted versions of ourselves that ensure acceptance. The problem begins when we forget these are characters, not our essence.
“No one is himself. Every man is all men.” – Fernando Pessoa
The Most Common Masks
According to analytical psychology, these are some personas we create:
- The Perfect One: Hides vulnerabilities behind achievements
- The People-Pleaser: Suppresses needs for acceptance
- The Strong One: Denies emotions to appear invulnerable
- The Rebel: Uses opposition to hide fear of belonging
Signs You’re Wearing Masks
- Exhaustion after social interactions
- Feeling like you’re “performing”
- Difficulty saying no
- Changing behavior based on company
- Shame about genuine preferences
Finding Your True Self
Exercises to reduce identification with masks:
- Notice anxiety when “breaking character”
- Ask: “Who would I be if no one judged me?”
- Practice small daily authenticities
- Record moments of genuine spontaneity
Your wisest mask is the one you recognize as temporary – and can remove when you choose.
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